Katie, Pam and Myra Saturday 12/13/08
Katie, Pam and Myra Saturday 12/13/08

My MS and Me Support Group went as planned on Saturday, December 13, 2008. I was so grateful to see everyone and felt so much better after we all met. It is so good to see a familiar face – Myra- and a new face finally Katie was able to join. I am so happy that she made it. I am hoping this is something that will continue from here on out. I think it is so important to have the support and to share what we go through.

We talked about many things. Katie wanted to know ho w long Myra has had her MS. Myra explained she feels that she has had it since 2000. She explained to Katie some of the things that she went through such as being scared to see the doctor. Then her symptoms got worse, she felt she had no choice but to see the doctor. Myra mentioned that she was not diagnosed right away, but almost a year later, the doctor finally saw the lesions on her scan. If I remember correctly, Katie said that her scans did not show up right away. I shared my story I thought it was strange, because I was diagnosed right away. There was no ands ifs or buts about it. The neurologist said I had MS. In a way I feel that at least I did not have to go through many tests and diagnoses to determine I had MS. It happened right away. I cannot imagine having going through the torment of wondering what is wrong with me because the doctor cannot figure anything out, why are these things happening. My diagnosis happened very quickly. But my long lonely ordeal with my MS seemed like forever until I started talking about it with someone else this year. Please know that I have talked about it with other people who did not have MS, but actually talking with someone who has it makes a huge difference.
We talked about food issues, still not sure if food does make a difference. Even if it does not make a difference, at least we are healthy. Myra explained to Katie about her nutrionist and what he does for her. I talked about these minerals and vitamins that I was taking and how I felt when I was taking them. A huge difference in how I felt every day. I told everyone that I will try them again and make sure that it is not a fluke before letting everyone else try it.
It was a good meeting, I hope that it will keep up.

Lesa’s Post

Lesa

Lesa

It really hit me, to understand about different foods. Because two weeks go I felt back normal then my body felt funny, heavy and numb so I realized it is worth to eat the right diet foods. So, I do this again  (it is not too late )  will go back to strict food diet again.  🙂  Don read the book about healing MS  and he was helping me a lot too to understand and be patient and will take few months to get improve maybe more  until one year – it depends for people like me.

Lesa

 

 

I received this email from one of my fellow MS friends, and it is interesting to read her comments about food. Kind of renews my faith in eating organic, healthy foods. I think after other testimonials, I will still continue on my path of research — always trying to find what is the best source of treatment and relief for my MS.

Be well and strong!

Food for thought

As we all know from reading my blogs, that I have always felt and expressed my opinon strongly about food playing such a huge role in our health. Some have disagreed with  me even though this thoughts are my opinions and some have agreed with me – even people who do not suffer from MS but from other issues such as thyroid, diabetes, Parkinson’s disease just to name a few agree with me 100%.

After a few blogs later, some have expressed their opinions strongly to me about what they felt about wanting to eat anything and everything even though there are studies out there that show different kinds of results. A few weeks or months go by a light bulb goes off and those people that have disagreed with me all of a sudden see that food can make a difference in how we feel everyday. 

Simple thing to remember – if we gorge on chocolate chip cookies and eat 10 or 12 of them, our body is going to react to that — we are either going to have a sugar shock or we are going to have a huge stomache. Same concept with the types of foods that we put in our bodies causes either 1 or 2 things — a food reaction or you are fine.

Figuring out what is compatiable with our bodies is a work in progress. Unfortuantely for us who have MS it is always a guessing game. I am still guessing on what is good for me or not based on my food journals that I keep. I cannot have it any other way, simply because I know deep down inside how bad my body reacts to something that I should not eat.

My favorite thing to eat is meatloaf, mashed potatoes and corn or green beans. I cannot eat meatloaf – it is beef – my body reacts so badly to beef I cannot function for 2 or 3 days. My other favorite thing to eat is pork roast or roast beef – same idea. I crave it but I always tell myself – do you want to walk and play outside or do you want to stay inside and watch tv and sleep for the next 2 to 3 days. My inner strength wins and I get to play and go shopping and have lunch with my friends.

I realize now we have choices. Those choices is what makes us healthy strong and happy.

Exhaustion

I guess one of the biggest keys  in having MS is being tired all the time. Ever since I started my job, I have been more tired than before. Between a full time job and going to school full time, I crave sleep a lot more now! LOL. I applaud all those people that are out there trying to better themselves while working full time. I know now how you all feel.

Well, let’s see what’s been going on, without sounding like a mother hen, my support group meeting did not happen this month. So disapointing! We all need support and getting together once a month for 2 hours is really nothing. I know that when I get together with people I feel so much better after, its like a renewed faith, the energizer bunny almost. Having MS sucks that is the bottom line. We are restricted in so many things, and it is important to be able to get the support we need from others so that we do not become depressed and withdrawn.

Hopefully, things will pick up soon and everyone wakes up and smells the coffee – that this is important to be able to share ideas and feelings about things – it could help the next person.

Here is to hoping everyone has a great thanksgiving and that we are all healthy and full of energy!

3rd MS Group Meeting October 18th @ Schuller’s Bookstore

Pam, Myra and Lesa still going strong

Pam, Myra and Lesa still going strong

The group meeting went very well this past Saturday, October 18th. I’m sorry that Katie could not join us as she had prior commitments. I am hoping soon eventually she will be able to meet with us. There is so much support and information to share with each other, everyone benefits.

We have agreed on several things, The central location for the meetings will be somewhere in Howell. We will try it out for a few times, and if it does not work out we will change the meeting place. I will be doing some research to see where we can all meet in Howell.

The 2nd thing we talked about was a group name. We have officially decided that the group name is going to be “Living it Up with MS”. IT’S OFFICIAL.

Everyone agreed that the 2nd Saturday of every month 11:30 am seemed to be the best logical meeting time and date.  We also talked about maybe trying out TeaVana in Troy Michigan Somerset Mall on November 8th. We will just play it by ear and see how everyone is doing. I brought brochures for everyone to read up on. KUDO’s to Heather Wilson for going to the Somerset Mall for me and gathering all the information. Thank you Heather!

Thank you Lori Baar for providing transporation for Lesa. I am hoping that Lesa’s husband will come to one of our meetings, it is important that he shares the same thoughts and feelings Lesa is going through right now with her MS. The family support needs to be there, still working on that family unit support. Lesa had some major set backs with food issues. I think that now her family realizes that she cannot eat their food and needs to eat organic, gluten, dairy and yeast free things. Lesa shared her latest food discovery, that she cannot eat eggs. So now that makes it the 4 things she has to watch out for in her diet.

Myra was feeling so-so. Still having some major issues with tingling. She is working it out with her doctor. Hopefully they will pinpoint what exactly is the problem and what is causing the tingling.

I am doing ok other than fighting the fatigue. I have started working again. I am trying it out for 3 months to see if I can handle the full time load and school. If things get bad I will leave work and stick with school as we all know that I have waited so long, so many disapointments and years to start with school again, and I am not about to give that up.

My sister brought some really cool information to the meeting. I will post this information on another post because I want to keep it the focal point. So check out my next post after you read this one.

3RD MS Meeting Saturday October 18th, 11:30 am

The Vote is In!

Schuller’s Book Store and Cafe in Okemos MI. Bookstore and cafe has very good food. Can meet there because we can look up things if needed about different topics.

If you are new to this site — please email me at pam.groth@gmail.com if you are interested in coming to the support group meeting Okemos MI. We have designated driver for those that cannot drive.

I am not superwoman I do not have anything to prove

Interesting statement don’t you think?

 I recently had a conversation with someone about MS and how hard it is to figure out what causes our attacks. Is it food, is it not resting and getting proper 8 hours of sleep, is it stress? What could be the cause of our attacks when they do happen.

My opinion I think it is food and not enough rest. And please remember ….. these are just my opinions, I am not a doctor, this information is based on doing self-tests on myself and others. I know I feel like CRAP when I do not take care of myself. I push so hard to get things done, and I forget about myself.  It is as if I am trying to prove something to someone, but in reality there is nothing to prove. The work will be there tomorrow. The dirty house will be there tomorrow, if I really need help, I will ask someone to help me I am not that proud not to ask for help.

Recently worked with someone about certain foods that are affecting her ability to function properly. I kind of got a little upset because the person said “I want to prove to someone that I cannot eat cheese, it makes me very weak, now that person saw it and I proved to them I cannot have it”.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr – this is about you coping, and focusing on living everyday, not THEM!

What is to prove?   Why put your body in such a state of turmoil because you want to prove to someone that because you have MS you cannot do or eat something? The only thing that crossed my mind was after a month and half of eating the correct foods with minor setbacks, the person went out and ate something that would cause the body to become very weak and not be able to walk. I don’t get that? I know I know, I have done this too, but not to prove a point.

I am not superwoman, there are things that I cannot do. Sometimes I forget that. It is normal, because we have gone through a good part of our lives doing things for ourselves. I forgot that the other day. I fell, big time. I was carrying something into the house because I was being stupid. I should have waited for my sister to get home and I did not, I fell and put a dent in the laundry room wall. Good Going Pam!! So stupid, so I can relate to this person’s decision about eating something that causes the body to weaken and not able to walk. We have to rememeber this — People have to accept that with or without an explaination. We should not feel that we have to explain ourselves to anyone. Living with this disease is hard, why make it worse.

IT IS SO IMPORTANT TO PUT OURSELVES FIRST….. THEN EVERYTHING ELSE WILL FALL INTO PLACE

It has been a while

I have not written in my blog for a little while. I have been very busy with school and now I have a job. My hours are pretty filled. I visited a fellow friend this week on Tuesday who has MS like I do, and she was struggling that day. She had some Gluten Free bread and was not able to walk very well.  I checked the ingredients and found that the gluten free bread has yeast as one of the ingredients. Yeast is one of the 5 common foods that often trigger MS attacks in some people. So far, she is not able to eat any dairy or yeast at all.

Interesting tidbit of information. My sister went to a health seminar recently and discovered that the lecturer was a doctor along with 3 other doctors who have developed these vitamins and minerals and also believe that Omega Fatty Acids can help repair the damaged mylein sheath in people who have MS. I will be researching this because it sounds too good to be true!! If that was the case, why haven’t all the neurologists that we have seen tell us this???? Is it a fluke????? Well, I am no sure at the moment but will keep you posted. Interesting tidbit — he said that people who suffer from high blood pressure is missing an important mineral in their body. I wonder on a different note — if he means this — people who have MS have some sort of mineral and vitamin deficiency?? Interesting concept.

I love eggs. We are always told by our doctors that we have to be careful with eggs because it causes the cholesterol levels to shoot up. This lecturer claims that eggs are so important for people who have MS because it helps repair the damaged Mylein Sheath? Interesting!!! I am so confused right now, some books say eggs are not the proper food to eat, and this man is saying to eat 4 eggs a day.  Can you imagine? Eggs produce a good cholesterol. It is the good cholesterol that is needed to repair damaged things in our bodies from toxins that are digested daily. Will keep reading!!! I AM NOT ENTIRELY CONVINCED.

Will be heading to the Madonna Health Fair this weekend in Livonia, MI – I am hoping to gather some more info about different things as my mind is craving more knowledge.

It’s My Life and It’s In My Hands

After helping a fellow MS friend with her problems with MS, I learned some things about myself. It is scarey to see someone go through certain  motions like not being able to walk without the aid of a walker, and if we wanted to go somewhere, it was a chore to load up the car with the wheelchair and walker, and help her to the car. I realized that this can happen to me. I would have to depend on someone else to help me go places and get around and do things. I got really scared. Such an eye-opener for me.

The emotions that ran through my body was high. I did not realize that how important it is to listen to your body and get rest as much as you can because if I don’t do these things I can land up like her or even worse. This scares me – I have so many plans for my life. I am scared that I will not be able to do the things that I treasure the most like – going to the store to buy food, cook, decorate cakes, sew quilts, paint, even write. These are the things I take for granted every day I am alive. I need to STOP! and sit back and enjoy every bit of time I have because it can all be taken away in the next minute. Learning to appreciate and enjoy what I can do and even just sitting outside and absorping everything makes all the difference in the world.  The plans I once had a long time ago before I was diagnosed with this stupid-ass disease, I planned to have a family, meet someone, fall in love, get married, have children. I think I would be an awesome mom and a great caregiver for my family. It is in me! the nurturing part.

When I got diangosed with MS – everything changed. My life changed. I stopped living. I stopped planning things. Everything I did was a ho de hum kind of thing. The normal things we do everyday I did them listlessly. It did not mean anything.

NOW — I have so much I want to do, there are things I want to accomplish – #1 – finish college!!! get my Bachelor’s degree – 1year left WHOO HOO — YEAH!!!!, #2 – write a book about my life living with deaf parents in the god-forsaken farm with no exposure to people and culture and what I have gone through with my MS, #3 – it would be nice to meet someone – to have a great conversation and share things with and lastly # 4 – get the business off the ground so that my family and I will live without the worry of being fired or laid off from their jobs and not having to work for someone else and abide by their stupid stupid stupid rules. Speaking of rules, I can remember the most recent job I had with a construction company – I was told by one of the owners of the company to keep my pain and personal problems at home. Everyone goes through their own pain and even I (meaning the owner) have pain I go through everyday. I am thinking what an ASSHOLE!!!! I got let go anyway, so what the hell (more in my upcoming book — ya never know it can happen!)

 Anyway, on a more positive note, these are my goals, it would be so cool to see the happen!

Can Food Be An Issue Or Not?

After a week and a half of taking care of a fellow MS friend, I cannot help but wonder if MS attacks are caused by different foods. BY NO MEANS, AM I A DOCTOR!! AND THIS IS NOT A CURE FOR MS AND ALWAYS CHECK WITH YOUR DOCTOR ABOUT THINGS YOU WANT TO TRY, but it seems to be a pattern that food can play key roles in how we feel everyday. After having our 2nd group meeting and speaking with the people who showed up, they displayed the same opinions as I do. Everyone has “DIFFERENT” opinions and feelings about food.

With Lesa, we noticed that she had more problems with certain foods such as any type of dairy product, pork, yeast, and possibly eggs and gluten. This is extremely interesting and an interesting observation to me, since most of the healthy eating books about MS explain that these food allergies wreak the body’s abilities to walk and function normally.

Myra indicated in the meeting that her issues were related to anything that has sugar in it. Fruit is a natural sugar her doctor and she feels that some fruits are OK, but not to overdo it. Myra follows a very strict diet, she eat only organic fruits, vegetables, poultry, eggs, and nuts. She showed surprise when the book “The MS Recovery Diet” suggested that eggs might cause attacks because she eats eggs 3 times a week, this is written on the Direct-MS website

www.direct-ms.org/recommendations.html 

This website explains this same theory that these types of foods dairy, eggs, animal fats, sugars, gluten are suggested that have the potential to cause autoimmune reactions. MS is an autoimmune disease, and these foods may cause problems with certain people.  This does not mean Myra cannot eat eggs, it just means it is something she should keep track of and see if there is a problem. Every person has different attacks with different foods. Some suffer the same signs and with some there are no food allergies at all. 

 I noticed with my body, I cannot eat beef, peanuts, and some pork products, I become extremely tired and cannot function the next couple of days, I am very listless and feel like CRAP! Dairy (I mean just organic milk), eggs do not seem to bother me, although that is the number 1 problem with most people. I do not eat a lot of sugar anyway because I have Type II Diabetes – which was caused from years of Predisone and Soluable Medisol and of course the number one problem being overweight. Losing weight for me is a work in progress. Sometimes I think that losing weight is such a joke for me because it is so hard for me to exercise. My legs become numb and all tingling like they are going to fall asleep making it so painful to exercise.

I shared some great insights from information that I have collected from various book sources and from the health food stores. I had a friend who is a health food nut and she gave me one of her little brochures that she gets from her health food store and I found a very interesting article about the herb Cilantro. Cilantro to me tastes like soap. It is a very strong-tasting herb and it is used in mostly some Asian soups and Mexican dishes like salsa. Ok, there is a big theory floating out there about mercury and silver fillings that we have in our mouths for cavities. The silver that is used to fill cavaties causes our bodies to have dangerous toxins that cause MS an exacerbation. AGAIN, I AM NOT A DOCTOR BY ANY MEANS THESE ARE JUST OBSERVATIONS I HAVE LEARNED FROM OTHER PEOPLE.  By removing these silver fillings and replacing them with porcelain products the MS attacks were less to almost non-existent to some. Lesa has about 7 or 8 fillings in her mouth and one broke six months ago, and she told me her MS attacks started around that time frame. Vicky said that her mother who has MS had the same problem until her fillings were removed and there was a huge difference in the way her mom felt. SO….. interesting little tidbit of information. Anyway, the herb Cilantro helps remove toxins caused from aluminum, lead, mercury, silver etc., from the body. There is a Cilantro pesto sauce recipe on my PK Cakes website if you are interested in this sort of theory.

Learning about how food affects the body is extremely interesting to me. I enjoy learning about all kinds of food and how they affect the way we feel everyday. Very motivated  now to keep on eating healthy and promoting healthier eating habits.  It is better to be safe than to keep our eating style that can affect our recovery. I have to learn to accept that I have many limitations to eating and doing normal activities everyday and those things are very hard for me to do. It is hard to slow down when I know there is so much I  want and need to do. I have to stop and listen to what is going on in my body because I suffer when I am Not resting, Eating a well-balanced diet, Exercising (when I can), Getting enough sunshine for vitamin D (one of the causes of MS, the lack of), and Respecting my body. These are the 5 things I have to implement in my life. I do believe that if I follow those things, I will have better control of my MS situations that pop up everyday.