Some days I can walk fine and my legs are not bothering me, I am not tired and I am having a good day, but I still park in the handicap parking zone. It is interesting to watch all the people’s faces when I pull up into a handicap parking spot and get out of my car and walk towards the store. What is funny is that they don’t know I can read lips. I can understand every single word they are saying. I have had people cuss at me, call me names, say nasty swear words, give me dirty looks and I have even had old people follow me into the store and say “honey, you are parking in a handicap spot, you should move your car so a person that does have a handicap can park there because you don’t look like you have a disability”. What a lot of nerve! It takes a lot of strength for me not to slap and push people down when they tell me this. I understand that people want to protect the handicap spots, but I don’t feel I owe anyone an explaination as to why I am parking in a handicap zone. It is even funnier when old people pull right up next to me and give me nasy looks because I have parked in their handicap spot – oh my!
First of all, my doctor would not sign the handicap permit application if she did not think I needed it. Second of all, America butt out, I have a right to park in the handicap zone – I have MS!
Yeah, it’s hard for others to understand us because our lesions in our CNS are not visible. People do not realize that we do have good and bad days. (Flare-ups)